Work Life Balance: The Art of Saying “No”.

I’m always have been a workaholic but I’ve never been more rushed in my life than lately. This year is about to end yet I feel I ought to spend more time with family and friends. Days are compressed with most nights I’m awake doing some work or school stuff. There seem to be an endless barraged of things to do and I’m sacrificing personal for my work time. Of course I did try “hacks” to regain some sense of work-life balance, but I need to try harder. One big contributor to work life imbalance is the difficulty of saying no, so I thought of discussing work life balance, vis a vis saying “no”, in this week in #HealthXPh chat.

T1. Why do you think many medical professionals find it difficult to say “no” ?

Medical education and training honed us to be super humans many of us grew accustomed to the culture of extending work time to service humanity. In a work environment where the culture are straight duties, overtimes , giving “extra mile” in the service of humanity, saying no is like saying no to our profession. It is pretty much embarrassing, to say no in the medical profession. Sacrificing personal life seem to be the de facto culture in healthcare.

T2. What’s your funniest saying “no” experience?

I digress a bit. Yes, saying no in healthcare is often embarrassing, sometimes outright humorous. How often do you find yourself yearning to say no to a request yet uttering the word “yes” instead? There are time that I said yes to a request or an additional work, yet I almost instantly wished I said “no” and hated myself for it. Sometimes, I say “yes” because a “no” in healthcare, is often interpreted as the work ethic of “scums” .

T3. Can you give tips or advice on saying no to achieve work life balance?

Lately I calendared a regular exercise schedule and declared it non negotiable. I did prioritize myself- health, and openly declared it to everyone- patients, friends, family and even my bosses. It was difficult at first but by calendaring it early on, it became a routine “excuse” to say no to every request foregoing that exercise routine.

There! I hope to read your thoughts and advices on work life balance and the art of saying “no” at the #HealthXPh chat this Saturday, Sept 15, 2023 9PM Manila time.

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See you all at the #HealthXPh chat!

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